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Marriage Counselling in Delhi ?

Marriage Counsellor in Delhi Dr Kamal Khurana and Tulika Bhandari provide
Marriage Counselling in Delhi
Pre-marriage counselling in Delhi
Re-marriage Counselling in Delhi

Marriage is a relationship that needs to be nurtured

Love in true sense is the only reciepe for a good marriage

Both the husband and the wife need to understand each other and support each other

Marriage counselor in Delhi Dr Khurana with their team of Marriage Counsellors in Delhi have helped hundreds of couples

Marriage Problems

Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

Dr Kamal Khurana Marriage Counselor delhi identified the following problems that appear in marriages in the modern times

Trust in the marriage :

People today have trust issues in their lives. This is a common issue that gets in the belief system right from childhood in most cases and gets stronger with the negative experiences with people in society. And the result is that even in the marriage people are not able to trust their partners.

Inability to share emotions and thoughts :

Because of lack of assertiveness and confidence and also due to lack of self esteem people do not share the deeper emotions which leads to sudden emotional outburts.

Lack of Intimacy :

Marriage couples do not know the importance of intimacy. And they are obsessed with the accomplishment in their career lives eventually totally ignoring their partner. This leads to distancing.

Problem Solving Skills :

Being unaware of healthy way to resolve problems at hand, couples either ignore the problems or end up fighting, blaming and criticizing which leads to despair and disgust.

Operating as one unit – one team :

Growth happens only when there is full co-operation, trust and love between the couple. But lack of skills and awareness leads to all sorts of problems in a marriage like in-laws issues, infidelity etc.

Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

Success Rate of marriage counselling

Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

Dr Kamal Khurana Marriage Counselor delhi identified the factors of Success of marriage counselling in the following way

Trust in the marriage counsellor :

Following the take aways from the marriage counselling sessions certainly helps

Continuous feedback and follow up :

Knowing the outcome of the work in the marriage counselling helps altering the therapy all for good

Therapist Client Partnership :

Marriage counselors cannot work in isolation in individual capacity. Success of the marriage counselling happens when the couple and the counsellor work as one team.

Right Intention :

Being authentic to the process ensures success of marriage counselling

Full course of therapy :

Growth happens when the full course of therapy is followed.

Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

Does marriage counseling really work

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  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

    All people who seek counselling don’t understand the following critical facts to ensure that their marriage becomes healthy. Making marriage counselling effective is also a responsibility of the clients .

    Sharing the true facts :

    Being true is the most important pre-requisite

    Ownership of the marriage :

    Having the ultimate objective of resolving the issues in the relationship instead of blaming or knowing who was wrong

    Partnership for a new beginning :

    Partnering in creating a new relationship is making the marriage counselling process useful. Marriage counselor is not the only person who can fix a marriage until both the couple unite for the cause.

    Love :

    Love cannot happen at a superficial level.

    Being a team :

    The outcome of marriage counselling is to create a team.

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  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

    How to fix the marriage – benefits of marriage counseling

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  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

    Dr Kamal Khurana uses a unique process for marriage counselling Delhi :-

    • Look at the deeper reason behind the conflict.
    • Establish culture of love in your relationship.
    • Resolve the problems and bring the needed sensitivity to each others state of emotions
    • Resolve the sensitive topics with great care an don’t hurry
    • Relate to your partner’s core needs and expectations from the relationships
    • Focus on becoming a team rather than settling scores and winning the argument.
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  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

    Reasons to seek Marriage Counseling

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  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

    Reasons to seek Marriage Counselling are as follows :

    Its not that you should seek Marriage counselling only when you are the last door.
    You must seek help when you sense that things are not right.
    Life doesn’t give an opportunity everyday.

    Following are few reasons that you must look way before things are out of control –

    * ANGER OUTBURSTS on small issues

    * DIMINISHING or NO PHYSICAL INTIMACY

    * SENSE OF DISGUST TOWARDS EACH OTHER

    * ABUSE – VERBAL OR PHYSICAL

    * SIGNS OF INFIDELITY

    * A SENSE OF VACUUM IN THE HEARTS

    * LACK OF ATTRACTION

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  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

    TRUE LOVE vs FANTASY LOVE ………..

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  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

    Is Love a reality ? And What Is Love ?

    Majority of people normally understand Love an emotion, a heightened state of dependency on someone. This is an imaginary state or fantasy that one acquires because of constant reinforcement from the singers, poets, and other media which promotes this sense of dependency.

    True love is similar to what nature has. Nature wants to add value to everything, to us. But nature is not feeling deficient while doing so. Nature has lots of love to give. But masses who are addicted to the fantasy love, are deficient of love. They feel that if that person is possesses then they will feel complete. Aren’t they like a parasite ?

    Love has to be generated from within and supposed to add value to the other. So next time you find someone saying – “I love her and i cant live without her”, tell him that you are empty and you want to inflict her with your emptiness. You don’t add value to her but create pain by forcing yourself on her. If you really have love inside for her, do what can help her grow. Then may be she sees your love. Also don’t do anything that she doesn’t like, but do all that she appreciates. Then we will say that you love her”.

    Definitions on Love

    • True love adds, but Fantasy Love is needing.

                      – Dr Kamal Khurana

    • Love a sense of completion inside and not a sense of deficiency

                      — Dr Kamal Khurana

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  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

    Ways to create intimacy and love in a relationship

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  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

    Intimacy means closeness. Mostly people have a very limited and myopic understanding of intimacy. Closeness is intimacy. First closeness has to be at the emotional level and then at logistical (tasks or transnational) level and then at the bodily level.
    This is very simple to understand. Go back to your childhood. Only when you liked some child in your class, you would feel like sitting close to him / her on the same desk, play with him/her and share your lunch box or your rubber and sharpener with him/her.

    So is the situation in relationships as well.

    You need to first of all know what all the other likes and dislikes. Also the other needs to know your likes and dislikes, your aspirations and your life as a whole.

    Personality :

    Knowing your partner’s likes and dislikes is the most important thing. You need to know what constitutes the life of your partner. Only when you know your partner’s being, you will be able to give a condusive atmosphere to him/her. This will make you more likeable.

    Concept of love :

    How does your partner want to be loved ? If you have an answer to this question, you have the key. You may have your way of loving, but that is not what your partner may want. Your success is when your partner can feel loved.

    Support in challenging times :

    A friend in need is a friend in deed. Yes, if you are able to support your partner in his/ her challenges, you will be loved more. He/she will have the regard for you only if you are there besides in the moments of challenge.

    Be Sensual :

    If you are having a sense of sensuality, you will become irresistible. The trick is to understand your partner’s needs of romance and give him/her a perfect sensual experience. Remember that you can’t force yourself on him/her, but you need to make your best efforts such that your partner gets attracted.

    Doing Household Activities Together :

    As a kid, your partner too has learnt to do household chores together. If you ensure that your partner’s personal things are done by you yourself, a connect will get developed. And you will create a position in the subconscious mind of your partner.

    Special moments :

    Indeed, special moments are special. Never loose the opportunity to make your partner feel special in the special moments. Of course do not over due and never under do. Also do how your partner would like to be done to.

    Create the fantasy life your partner always wanted :

    If you have an idea of the fantasies of your partner, see if you can create those few moments. Even if you don’t like or have any interest, be a part of those activities. You will make yourself loveable.

    Praise your partner in public and in private :

    Your partner has a subconscious need of being praised or acknowledged in private as well as in public. Even if your partner has never expressed this need, but it is there. Do loosen yourself and speak it out from your heart. You may be conscious while saying those words, but do say them and get better on saying them.

    Love genuinely and you will be loved surely

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  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.