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Reasons to seek Marriage Counseling

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    Reasons to seek Marriage Counselling are as follows :

    Its not that you should seek Marriage counselling only when you are the last door.
    You must seek help when you sense that things are not right.
    Life doesn’t give an opportunity everyday.

    Following are few reasons that you must look way before things are out of control –

    * ANGER OUTBURSTS on small issues

    * DIMINISHING or NO PHYSICAL INTIMACY

    * SENSE OF DISGUST TOWARDS EACH OTHER

    * ABUSE – VERBAL OR PHYSICAL

    * SIGNS OF INFIDELITY

    * A SENSE OF VACUUM IN THE HEARTS

    * LACK OF ATTRACTION

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    TRUE LOVE vs FANTASY LOVE ………..

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    Is Love a reality ? And What Is Love ?

    Majority of people normally understand Love an emotion, a heightened state of dependency on someone. This is an imaginary state or fantasy that one acquires because of constant reinforcement from the singers, poets, and other media which promotes this sense of dependency.

    True love is similar to what nature has. Nature wants to add value to everything, to us. But nature is not feeling deficient while doing so. Nature has lots of love to give. But masses who are addicted to the fantasy love, are deficient of love. They feel that if that person is possesses then they will feel complete. Aren’t they like a parasite ?

    Love has to be generated from within and supposed to add value to the other. So next time you find someone saying – “I love her and i cant live without her”, tell him that you are empty and you want to inflict her with your emptiness. You don’t add value to her but create pain by forcing yourself on her. If you really have love inside for her, do what can help her grow. Then may be she sees your love. Also don’t do anything that she doesn’t like, but do all that she appreciates. Then we will say that you love her”.

    Definitions on Love

    • True love adds, but Fantasy Love is needing.

                      – Dr Kamal Khurana

    • Love a sense of completion inside and not a sense of deficiency

                      — Dr Kamal Khurana

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    Ways to create intimacy and love in a relationship

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    Intimacy means closeness. Mostly people have a very limited and myopic understanding of intimacy. Closeness is intimacy. First closeness has to be at the emotional level and then at logistical (tasks or transnational) level and then at the bodily level.
    This is very simple to understand. Go back to your childhood. Only when you liked some child in your class, you would feel like sitting close to him / her on the same desk, play with him/her and share your lunch box or your rubber and sharpener with him/her.

    So is the situation in relationships as well.

    You need to first of all know what all the other likes and dislikes. Also the other needs to know your likes and dislikes, your aspirations and your life as a whole.

    Personality :

    Knowing your partner’s likes and dislikes is the most important thing. You need to know what constitutes the life of your partner. Only when you know your partner’s being, you will be able to give a condusive atmosphere to him/her. This will make you more likeable.

    Concept of love :

    How does your partner want to be loved ? If you have an answer to this question, you have the key. You may have your way of loving, but that is not what your partner may want. Your success is when your partner can feel loved.

    Support in challenging times :

    A friend in need is a friend in deed. Yes, if you are able to support your partner in his/ her challenges, you will be loved more. He/she will have the regard for you only if you are there besides in the moments of challenge.

    Be Sensual :

    If you are having a sense of sensuality, you will become irresistible. The trick is to understand your partner’s needs of romance and give him/her a perfect sensual experience. Remember that you can’t force yourself on him/her, but you need to make your best efforts such that your partner gets attracted.

    Doing Household Activities Together :

    As a kid, your partner too has learnt to do household chores together. If you ensure that your partner’s personal things are done by you yourself, a connect will get developed. And you will create a position in the subconscious mind of your partner.

    Special moments :

    Indeed, special moments are special. Never loose the opportunity to make your partner feel special in the special moments. Of course do not over due and never under do. Also do how your partner would like to be done to.

    Create the fantasy life your partner always wanted :

    If you have an idea of the fantasies of your partner, see if you can create those few moments. Even if you don’t like or have any interest, be a part of those activities. You will make yourself loveable.

    Praise your partner in public and in private :

    Your partner has a subconscious need of being praised or acknowledged in private as well as in public. Even if your partner has never expressed this need, but it is there. Do loosen yourself and speak it out from your heart. You may be conscious while saying those words, but do say them and get better on saying them.

    Love genuinely and you will be loved surely

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    Why do you need counselling and what is the role of a counsellor ?

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    Getting therapy from your counsellor Dr. Kamal Khurana helps in

    Dealing with the present challenges in the relationship 

    Be it – Infidelity, Lack of love, In-laws issues, Incompatibility or Anger issues

    Sharing with an expert helps

    Effective tools, Diligent monitoring and Rigorous follow ups ensures Relationship Health

    Positive Thinking

    You learn to establish a sense of respect, love, care and affection in your relationship

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    Tips for a Happy Marriage and Creating Intimate Relationship

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  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.

    Being a right partner is a key to a happy marriage. Although there is no magical formula to life, yet if following is considered, it becomes easier to create an intimate relationship.

    Being a lover :

    Everyone expects a lover, but nobody thinks of being a lover to the other. If you love the other the way the other wants to be loved, then a relationship has to be a happy one.

    Supporting in totality :

    How many people are really there to support us in our life. Very few. So if you support your partner, you will that special one in the other’s life. This will make you lovable.

    Special feeling :

    Having owned and belonged by you, will generate special feelings in your partner’s mind. This requires you to do the special gestures that your partner expects

    Being true :

    Being authentic to the other is an unsaid need of your partner. If you are humble in your words and have the right intention, your partner will like you. This is not being straight but it is being fair to your partner.

    Promoting the goodness :

    Everyone points our weaknesses in life. So if you always remind your partner about his/her strengths, you will be the blue eyed of your partner.

  • Dr. Kamal Khurana provides all forms of counselling online, on phone and face to face relationship counseling or marriage counselling services.